Dominance and Submission
Updated:Dominance and submission (often abbreviated as D/s) is a set of erotic practices, interpersonal dynamics, and roleplaying scenarios involving the consensual exchange of power between partners. In this dynamic, one partner (the dominant) takes control, while the other (the submissive) relinquishes control. This power exchange can be physical, emotional, or psychological, and may occur during sexual activities or extend into other aspects of the relationship.
Additional Information
D/s dynamics can vary widely in intensity and duration, from short-term "scenes" to 24/7 lifestyle choices. The specific activities and roles involved are negotiated between partners and may include elements such as bondage, discipline, or service. While often associated with BDSM, D/s can also exist independently of other kinky practices.
Key aspects of healthy D/s relationships include:
- Informed and enthusiastic consent
- Clear communication of boundaries and desires
- Establishment of safe words or signals
- Regular check-ins and aftercare
It's important to note that D/s dynamics are consensual role-play and do not reflect real-world power imbalances or non-consensual control.
Examples
A couple engaging in a D/s scene where one partner gives orders and the other obeys during intimate activities
A long-term relationship where partners incorporate D/s elements into their daily lives, such as one partner making decisions about meals or schedules