Bondage

Bondage refers to the practice of restraining a partner for sexual pleasure and stimulation. It involves using materials like ropes, cuffs, or other restraints to restrict movement of the body. Bondage is commonly practiced within the context of BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism) but can be enjoyed as its own activity as well.

The appeal of bondage is both physical and psychological - the feeling of restraint and giving up control can be very arousing and intimate for the person being tied up (the submissive or bottom). For the person doing the tying (the dominant or top), it can evoke feelings of power and control. Bondage can also enhance sensations, as the restrained person becomes hyper-aware of every touch.

Additional Information

Bondage encompasses a wide variety of techniques, from basic ties to highly intricate rope work like the Japanese styles of Shibari and Kinbaku. It can be purely decorative and sensual or more restrictive and intense. Couples may use simple tools like silk scarves and neckties or invest in specialized bondage gear.

As with all BDSM activities, bondage must be practiced with enthusiastic consent from both partners. Establishing a safe word allows the restrained person to stop the scene if it becomes too intense. Safety precautions like having safety shears on hand to quickly release knots are also important.