Dominant

A dominant, often referred to as a "dom" or "domme" (female dominant), is a person who takes on a controlling or authoritative role in a consensual BDSM or power exchange relationship. The dominant partner typically directs activities, gives orders, and may administer various forms of stimulation or discipline to their submissive partner(s). This role is adopted as part of a mutually agreed-upon dynamic that provides psychological, emotional, or sexual satisfaction to all involved parties.

Additional Information

The dominant role can manifest in various ways, from mild to intense, and may involve physical, verbal, or psychological aspects. It's crucial to understand that being dominant in a BDSM context is not about real-world superiority or non-consensual control. Ethical dominants prioritize the well-being, safety, and consent of their submissive partners, often engaging in thorough negotiations and establishing clear boundaries before any play or scene.

Dominance can be expressed in different styles, such as:

• Strict or disciplinarian
• Nurturing or caregiver
• Playful or teasing
• Sadistic (with consent)

Many dominants engage in ongoing education about safety, technique, and communication to ensure responsible practice.