Submissive
Updated:A submissive, often referred to as a "sub," is a person who willingly gives up control to another person (the dominant) in a consensual power exchange dynamic, typically within a BDSM context. This role can be adopted during sexual activities, scenes, or as part of a broader lifestyle choice. Submissives derive pleasure, excitement, or fulfillment from following orders, pleasing their dominant partner, or experiencing various forms of controlled treatment.
Additional Information
The submissive role can vary greatly depending on individual preferences and agreements with the dominant partner. It may involve physical acts, emotional submission, or both. The level of submission can range from light play to more intense scenarios, always within the boundaries of pre-established consent and safety measures.
It's crucial to understand that being submissive in a BDSM context is a consensual choice and does not reflect on a person's character or capabilities outside of this specific dynamic. Many submissives are confident, successful individuals in their everyday lives who choose to explore submission as a form of sexual or personal expression.
Examples
A submissive following their dominant's instructions during a scene, such as assuming certain positions or performing specific tasks.
A person who identifies as submissive in their relationship, allowing their partner to make decisions about their sexual activities or certain aspects of daily life, as agreed upon by both parties.