Enthusiastic Consent
Updated:Enthusiastic consent is a model of sexual consent that goes beyond mere agreement or acceptance of sexual activity. It emphasizes that consent should be given freely, enthusiastically, and with clear positive engagement from all parties involved. This concept promotes the idea that sexual interactions should be mutually desired and actively affirmed, rather than just passively accepted or not explicitly refused.
Additional Information
Enthusiastic consent is characterized by verbal and non-verbal cues that demonstrate a genuine desire to participate in sexual activity. It's an ongoing process throughout any sexual encounter, not just a one-time agreement at the beginning. This model encourages open communication about desires, boundaries, and comfort levels.
Key aspects of enthusiastic consent include:
- Clear, affirmative responses (e.g., "Yes, I want to")
- Active participation and engagement
- The ability to freely and comfortably say no at any time
- Ongoing check-ins throughout sexual activity
- Respect for changing minds or hesitation
It's important to note that the absence of a "no" does not equal consent, and that consent cannot be given under the influence of drugs or alcohol, or under coercion or pressure.
Examples
Partner A: "Can I kiss you?" Partner B: "Yes, absolutely!" (with visible excitement and positive body language)
During intimacy, regularly checking in: "Does this feel good?" "Would you like me to continue?"
Respecting a partner's change of mind: "You seem hesitant. Let's take a break an