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Subdrop is a term used in BDSM communities to describe the physical and emotional crash that a submissive partner may experience after an intense scene or play session. It typically involves feelings of sadness, anxiety, or depression that can occur hours or even days after the BDSM activity. This phenomenon is believed to be caused by the sudden drop in endorphins and adrenaline that were released during the intense experience.

Additional Information

Subdrop is a normal and common occurrence in BDSM practices, but its intensity can vary greatly between individuals and experiences. It's important for both dominant and submissive partners to be aware of this possibility and prepare accordingly. Proper aftercare, which involves physical and emotional support following a scene, can help mitigate the effects of subdrop.

Some common symptoms of subdrop include:

  • Feeling sad or melancholy
  • Experiencing anxiety or irritability
  • Physical exhaustion or muscle soreness
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Feeling disconnected or "spacey"

To manage subdrop, many practitioners recommend:

  • Engaging in thorough aftercare immediately following a scene
  • Staying hydrated and eating nutritious food
  • Getting plenty of rest
  • Maintaining open communication between partners
  • Engaging in self-care activities

Examples

After an intense rope bondage session, Sarah experienced subdrop the next day, feeling unusually sad and tired. Her partner made sure to check in regularly and provide emotional support.

To prevent severe subdrop, Alex and their dominant always plan for a relaxing day after their play