Responsive Desire
Updated:Responsive desire is a type of sexual desire that emerges in response to sexual stimuli or arousal, rather than occurring spontaneously. It's characterized by a person becoming interested in sex only after being exposed to erotic cues or physical intimacy. This pattern of desire is common and completely normal, often misunderstood as a lack of libido.
Additional Information
Responsive desire was first identified by sex researcher Rosemary Basson as part of her circular model of sexual response. It challenges the traditional linear model of desire always preceding arousal. People with responsive desire may not think about sex often but can become aroused and interested when exposed to the right context or stimuli. This concept is particularly important in understanding variations in sexual desire within relationships and addressing concerns about mismatched libidos.
Examples
A person who doesn't feel spontaneous desire for sex but becomes aroused and interested after their partner initiates physical intimacy.
Someone who rarely thinks about sex but enjoys it when it occurs, finding their desire increases with arousal.