Hierarchical Polyamory
Updated:Hierarchical polyamory is a relationship structure within non-monogamous relationships where partners are prioritized in a ranked system. In this dynamic, individuals have a primary partner who typically takes precedence in terms of time, resources, and commitment, followed by secondary or tertiary partners. The hierarchy is usually explicitly acknowledged and agreed upon by all involved parties.
Additional Information
In hierarchical polyamory, the primary relationship often resembles a traditional monogamous partnership in terms of shared responsibilities, long-term planning, and level of intimacy. Secondary and tertiary relationships may have different levels of commitment, emotional involvement, or practical considerations. It's important to note that the terms "primary," "secondary," and "tertiary" refer to the relationship structure, not the importance or value of the individuals involved.
This structure can provide clarity and stability for some polyamorous individuals, but it may also present challenges in terms of balancing needs and emotions across different relationship levels. Open communication, honesty, and consent are crucial in maintaining healthy hierarchical polyamorous relationships.
Examples
A married couple who live together and share finances, but also date other people separately with the understanding that their marriage takes priority.
A person who has a long-term committed partner they see regularly, and also maintains casual dating relationships with others who understand they are not the primary focus.