Safe Word
Updated:A safe word is a pre-agreed upon word or phrase used in sexual or BDSM contexts to indicate that a participant wants to pause or stop the current activity. It serves as a clear, unambiguous signal that can be used when "no" or "stop" might be part of the roleplay or scene. Safe words are crucial for maintaining consent and ensuring the physical and emotional safety of all parties involved.
Additional Information
Safe words are typically chosen to be distinctive and unlikely to be said accidentally during play. Common examples include colors (like "red" for stop, "yellow" for slow down) or random words like "pineapple." Some practitioners use a numbered system (1-5) to indicate comfort levels. It's important that all participants agree on and remember the safe word before engaging in any activities.
Safe words can be verbal or non-verbal (such as a specific gesture or sound) to accommodate situations where speaking might be difficult. Regular check-ins and establishing clear boundaries are also important aspects of safe and consensual play.
Examples
During a roleplay scene: "Remember, if you want to stop at any point, just say 'red' and we'll pause immediately."
In a BDSM context: "I'm feeling overwhelmed. Yellow." (Indicating a need to slow down or check in)