Relationship Anarchy
Updated:Relationship anarchy is a philosophy and practice of forming relationships that rejects traditional societal rules and expectations. It emphasizes personal freedom, open communication, and the idea that each relationship should be negotiated on its own terms without hierarchical structures or predetermined rules. Relationship anarchists believe that love is abundant and that romantic and sexual relationships shouldn't be prioritized over other types of relationships.
Additional Information
This approach differs from other forms of non-monogamy, such as polyamory, in that it doesn't necessarily focus on romantic or sexual relationships. Instead, it views all relationships - including friendships, family bonds, and romantic partnerships - as equally valuable and worthy of commitment. Relationship anarchists often reject labels and don't distinguish between "partners" and "friends."
Key principles of relationship anarchy include:
- Rejecting relationship hierarchies
- Customizing each relationship individually
- Embracing autonomy and independence
- Practicing radical honesty and open communication
- Challenging societal norms and expectations about relationships
Examples
Alex practices relationship anarchy by maintaining close, intimate relationships with several people without labeling them as romantic partners or prioritizing any one relationship over others.
Sam and Jordan have a relationship anarchist approach, allowing each other the freedom to form new connections and define those relationships independently, without imposed rules or expectations.