Limits (BDSM)
Updated:In BDSM, limits refer to the boundaries set by participants regarding what activities they are willing or unwilling to engage in during a scene or relationship. These boundaries are crucial for maintaining consent, safety, and comfort for all involved parties. Limits are typically discussed and agreed upon before any BDSM activities take place.
Additional Information
Limits are often categorized into two main types:
Hard limits: These are absolute boundaries that a person is not willing to cross under any circumstances. They are non-negotiable and must always be respected.
Soft limits: These are activities or practices that a person may be hesitant about but might be willing to try under certain conditions or with the right partner. Soft limits can change over time and may require further negotiation.
It's important for BDSM practitioners to regularly communicate and update their limits, as personal boundaries can evolve with experience and changing circumstances. Respecting limits is a fundamental aspect of ethical BDSM practice and helps build trust between partners.
Examples
Hard limit: "I absolutely do not want to engage in any blood play."
Soft limit: "I'm nervous about suspension bondage, but I might be willing to try it with an experienced rigger in a controlled environment."