Fraysexual
Updated:Fraysexual refers to a sexual orientation where a person experiences sexual attraction towards someone only until they develop a deep emotional connection or bond with them. As the emotional intimacy grows, the sexual attraction fades or disappears entirely. This orientation is considered part of the asexual spectrum.
Additional Information
Fraysexuality is often described as the opposite of demisexuality, where sexual attraction develops only after an emotional bond is formed. For fraysexual individuals, the initial stages of a relationship or encounters with new people may involve sexual attraction, but this feeling diminishes as they get to know the person better. This can lead to challenges in maintaining long-term sexual relationships.
It's important to note that fraysexuality, like all sexual orientations, exists on a spectrum. Some fraysexual individuals may experience a complete loss of sexual attraction, while others might experience a significant decrease but not a total loss. The experience can vary from person to person.
Examples
Alex identifies as fraysexual. They often feel sexually attracted to people they've just met or don't know well, but as they develop closer friendships or romantic relationships, the sexual attraction fades away.
Sam, a fraysexual person, enjoys casual dating and the excitement of new sexual encounters but finds it difficult to maintain sexual interest in long-term partnerships.