Unicorn-hunting

Unicorn-hunting is a term used in non-monogamous and polyamorous communities to describe the practice of an established couple seeking a third person, typically a bisexual woman, to join their relationship. The term "unicorn" is used because finding such a person who perfectly fits the couple's desires and expectations is often considered as rare and elusive as the mythical creature.

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Unicorn-hunting is often viewed critically within polyamorous communities due to potential power imbalances and unrealistic expectations. The "unicorn" is often expected to be equally attracted to both partners, to not develop feelings for one partner over the other, and to fit into the existing relationship without changing its dynamic. This can lead to ethical concerns about objectification and the treatment of the third person as an accessory rather than an equal partner.

It's important to note that while unicorn-hunting is a recognized phenomenon, ethical non-monogamy and polyamory encompass a wide range of relationship structures and dynamics beyond this specific practice.