Safeword
Updated:A safeword is a predetermined word or phrase used during sexual activities, particularly in BDSM scenarios, to communicate that a participant wants to pause or stop the activity immediately. It serves as a clear, unambiguous signal that consent is being withdrawn or that a physical or emotional limit has been reached.
Additional Information
Safewords are typically chosen to be distinct from words that might naturally occur during sexual activity, to avoid confusion. Common examples include "red" (to stop completely) and "yellow" (to slow down or check in). Some couples or groups may use the "traffic light" system, where "green" means everything is okay and to continue.
It's important to note that safewords are not just for BDSM; they can be used in any sexual encounter to ensure clear communication and respect for boundaries. Partners should discuss and agree on safewords before engaging in any activities where they might be needed.
Examples
During a roleplay scenario: "Remember, if you want to stop at any point, just say 'pineapple' and we'll pause immediately."
In a BDSM scene: "Yellow! I need a moment to catch my breath before we continue."