Nesting Partner
Updated:A nesting partner is a term used in polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous relationships to describe a partner with whom one lives or shares a home. This partner is typically considered a primary or anchor partner, though the level of commitment can vary. The concept of a nesting partner acknowledges the unique dynamics that come with cohabitation while allowing for other romantic or sexual relationships outside the nest.
Additional Information
The term "nesting partner" emerged from polyamorous communities as a way to describe domestic partnerships without implying hierarchy or primacy in emotional importance. It recognizes the practical and emotional significance of sharing a living space while avoiding terms like "primary partner" that might suggest other relationships are less valued. Nesting partners often share finances, daily responsibilities, and long-term plans, but this can vary depending on the individuals involved and their relationship agreements.
Examples
Sarah and Alex are nesting partners who live together, while both also dating other people separately.
In their polycule, Jamie and Pat are nesting partners, sharing a home and finances, but they each have other romantic relationships that don't involve cohabitation.