Practices and Scenes
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BDSM
BDSM is an umbrella term for a variety of erotic practices involving bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. These practices often involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, and the use of restraints or other tools to create intense physical sensations and psychological experiences.
Blindfold
A blindfold is a garment or accessory used to cover the eyes, often employed in sexual activities to enhance sensory experiences or as part of BDSM practices. By temporarily removing the sense of sight, a blindfold can heighten other senses and increase arousal, anticipation, and vulnerability for the wearer.
Bondage Rope
Bondage rope is a specialized type of rope designed for use in consensual bondage practices, typically as part of BDSM activities. These ropes are crafted to be safe, comfortable, and effective for restraining a partner during erotic play. Bondage ropes come in various materials, lengths, and thicknesses, each offering different sensations and levels of restraint.
Bondage
Bondage refers to the practice of restraining a partner for sexual pleasure and stimulation. It involves using materials like ropes, cuffs, or other restraints to restrict movement of the body. Bondage is commonly practiced within the context of BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism) but can be enjoyed as its own activity as well.
Breath-play
Breath-play, also known as erotic asphyxiation, is a high-risk sexual practice that involves intentionally restricting oxygen to the brain for sexual arousal. This can be done through various methods such as choking, smothering, or compression of the carotid arteries. It's important to note that breath-play is considered an extreme form of edge play within BDSM communities and carries significant risks, including accidental death.
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Candaulism
Candaulism is a sexual practice or fantasy in which one person, typically a man, exposes his partner or spouse in a sexual manner to other people for their own arousal. This can involve sharing intimate photos, having the partner wear revealing clothing in public, or even arranging for others to watch the partner during sexual activities. The term is derived from King Candaules of ancient Lydia, who, according to legend, showed his wife naked to his bodyguard Gyges.
Caning
Caning is a form of impact play in BDSM involving the use of a thin, flexible rod or cane to strike various parts of the body, typically the buttocks. It can range from light taps to more intense strikes, and practitioners should be well-versed in safety techniques and consent protocols before engaging in this activity.
Cock-worship
Cock-worship is a sexual practice or fetish that involves an intense focus on and adoration of the penis. It typically includes activities such as admiring, touching, kissing, licking, or performing oral sex on the penis with an attitude of reverence or devotion. This practice can be a part of various sexual dynamics and is often associated with power play or dominance/submission scenarios.
Consensual Non-Consent
Consensual non-consent, also known as CNC, is a BDSM practice where participants agree in advance to act out a scenario that appears to be non-consensual. Despite its name, it is a consensual activity where all parties involved have thoroughly discussed and agreed upon boundaries, safe words, and the specific acts that will occur. The practice often involves power exchange dynamics and roleplaying scenarios.
Cuckolding
Cuckolding is a sexual practice or fetish in which one partner (typically male) derives sexual pleasure from watching or knowing about their partner (typically female) engaging in sexual activities with another person. The term "cuckold" traditionally refers to the male partner in this dynamic, while the female partner is sometimes called a "hotwife." The third person involved is often referred to as a "bull."
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Dogging
Dogging is a slang term primarily used in the UK and some other parts of Europe to describe the practice of engaging in or watching sexual activities in public places, typically in secluded areas such as parks or car parks. It often involves people meeting strangers for sexual encounters, with the added thrill of potentially being observed by others. The term "dogging" is believed to have originated from the excuse of "walking the dog" used by participants to explain their presence in these areas.
Dominance and Submission
Dominance and submission (often abbreviated as D/s) is a set of erotic practices, interpersonal dynamics, and roleplaying scenarios involving the consensual exchange of power between partners. In this dynamic, one partner (the dominant) takes control, while the other (the submissive) relinquishes control. This power exchange can be physical, emotional, or psychological, and may occur during sexual activities or extend into other aspects of the relationship.
Dungeon
A dungeon, in BDSM context, refers to a dedicated space designed for BDSM activities and play. It's not necessarily underground or prison-like as the name might suggest. Instead, it's a controlled environment equipped with various BDSM furniture, toys, and equipment to facilitate different types of scenes and activities.
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Electrostimulation
Electrostimulation, often referred to as e-stim or electrical play, is a sexual practice that involves using electrical currents to stimulate nerves and muscles for erotic pleasure. This technique uses specialized devices to send controlled electrical pulses through the body, creating unique sensations that can range from gentle tingles to intense pulsations.
Erotic Massage
Erotic massage is a form of sensual touch that combines elements of traditional massage techniques with sexual stimulation. It involves the manipulation of the body's soft tissues with the intention of arousing sexual desire and enhancing intimate connection between partners. Unlike therapeutic massage, erotic massage focuses on pleasurable sensations and may include stimulation of erogenous zones.
Erotic Masseuse
An erotic masseuse is a professional who provides massage services with the intention of sexual arousal or gratification. Unlike traditional massage therapists, erotic masseuses typically offer services that include genital stimulation or other sexual activities. These services are often referred to as "happy endings" or "full-service" massages.
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Figging
Figging is the practice of inserting a piece of peeled ginger root into the anus or vagina for sexual stimulation. This activity produces a burning sensation and heightened sensitivity in the affected area, which some people find pleasurable as part of BDSM or sensation play.
Flashing
Flashing refers to the act of briefly exposing one's genitals, breasts, or buttocks to others in public or semi-public settings, typically without their consent. It's often done for sexual gratification, shock value, or as a form of exhibitionism. While some may view it as a harmless prank, flashing is generally considered a form of sexual harassment and is illegal in many jurisdictions.
Flogging
Flogging is a BDSM practice involving the use of a multi-tailed whip, called a flogger, to strike a consenting partner's body for sexual gratification. It's a form of impact play that can range from gentle, sensual strokes to more intense, stinging sensations. The activity is typically performed by a dominant partner on a submissive partner, but roles can vary based on personal preferences.
Formicophilia
Formicophilia is a rare paraphilia characterized by sexual interest in or arousal from insects crawling on the body, particularly on the genitals. This fetish involves the sensation of insects, ants, or other small creatures moving on the skin as a source of sexual pleasure. While uncommon, formicophilia falls under the broader category of zoophilia, which involves sexual attraction to animals.
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Gagging
Gagging refers to the involuntary reflex action that occurs when the back of the throat is stimulated. In a sexual context, it often happens during oral sex, particularly deep-throating, when the penis or an object touches the soft palate or back of the throat. This reflex can cause a person to feel like they're choking or about to vomit, though this sensation usually passes quickly.
Gangbang
A gangbang is a sexual activity involving multiple participants, typically where several people (usually men) engage in sexual acts with one central person (often a woman, but not always). The term originated in pornography but is now used more broadly to describe this type of group sexual encounter. It's important to note that all participants must consent to be involved.
Genital Beading
Genital beading, also known as pearling or genital implants, is a body modification practice where small beads or objects are surgically inserted beneath the skin of the penis or, less commonly, the vulva. This procedure is typically done for aesthetic or sexual reasons, with the aim of enhancing sexual pleasure for the individual or their partners.
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Making Out
Making out refers to an extended period of passionate kissing and intimate physical contact between two people, typically as a form of sexual expression or foreplay. It usually involves deep, open-mouthed kissing (often called French kissing), as well as caressing, touching, and embracing. Making out can vary in intensity and duration, ranging from a few minutes to longer sessions.
Mindful Sexuality
Mindful sexuality is an approach to sexual experiences that emphasizes being fully present and aware during intimate moments. It involves bringing mindfulness techniques into sexual activities, focusing on sensations, emotions, and thoughts without judgment. This practice aims to enhance sexual pleasure, deepen connection with partners, and promote overall sexual well-being.
Mummification
Mummification is an extreme form of bondage within BDSM practices where one partner (the "mummy") is wrapped tightly from head to toe in materials such as plastic wrap, duct tape, or bandages. This practice creates a sensation of total immobilization and often sensory deprivation for the person being mummified.
Muscle Worship
Muscle worship is a sexual practice or fetish that involves the admiration, touching, and sometimes licking or kissing of a muscular person's body. It typically involves a "worshiper" who is attracted to and derives sexual pleasure from the muscular physique of the "bodybuilder" or "muscle god/goddess." This practice often emphasizes the power dynamic between the worshiper and the muscular individual.
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Nuru Massage
Nuru massage is a type of erotic body-to-body massage that originated in Japan. The term "nuru" comes from the Japanese word for "slippery." In this practice, both the giver and receiver of the massage are nude, and a special nuru gel is applied to their bodies. This odorless, colorless gel is typically made from nori seaweed and is extremely slippery, allowing for full body-to-body contact and sliding movements.
Nyotaimori
Nyotaimori, also known as "body sushi" or "naked sushi," is a practice originating in Japan where sushi or sashimi is served on the naked body of a person, typically a woman. The term literally translates to "female body presentation." This practice combines elements of food service, performance art, and erotic entertainment.
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Orgasm denial
Orgasm denial is a consensual sexual practice where one partner (or oneself) deliberately delays or prevents orgasm through various techniques like edging, despite continued sexual stimulation. It can be practiced solo or with a partner as part of BDSM play or general sexual exploration, with the goal of intensifying eventual sexual release or exercising sexual control.
Orgasm torture
Orgasm torture, also known as forced orgasm or post-orgasm torture, is a consensual BDSM practice where one partner continues sexual stimulation on another partner during or after orgasm when their body is extremely sensitive. This practice deliberately prolongs or forces multiple orgasms, often to the point of intense pleasure mixed with discomfort, and requires clear communication, consent, and established boundaries between partners.
Orgy
An orgy is a sexual activity involving multiple participants engaging in various sexual acts with one another simultaneously. Typically, an orgy involves more than three people, distinguishing it from a threesome. Participants may engage in a variety of sexual activities, including but not limited to intercourse, oral sex, and mutual masturbation.
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Sensation Play
Sensation play is a sexual practice that focuses on exploring and stimulating various sensory experiences to enhance pleasure and arousal. It involves using different textures, temperatures, and sensations on the body to create a range of physical and psychological responses. This practice can be gentle and subtle or more intense, depending on the preferences of those involved.
Sensual Massage
Sensual massage is a form of intimate touch that combines elements of traditional massage techniques with erotic stimulation. It involves the use of various strokes, pressures, and movements on the body to promote relaxation, increase arousal, and enhance intimacy between partners. Unlike therapeutic massage, sensual massage often includes attention to erogenous zones and may lead to sexual activity, though this is not always the case.
Sensual Undressing
Sensual undressing, also known as a striptease, is the act of slowly and deliberately removing clothing in a manner intended to arouse sexual interest. It involves the gradual revelation of the body, often accompanied by teasing movements, to build anticipation and excitement in a partner or audience. This practice can be a form of foreplay, a performance art, or both.
Shibari
Shibari, also known as Kinbaku, is a Japanese-style rope bondage art that involves tying a person using intricate patterns of knots and rope work. It's both an aesthetic practice and a form of BDSM activity, combining elements of restraint, power exchange, and artistic expression. The term "Shibari" literally means "to tie" or "to bind" in Japanese.
Skirtlifting
Skirtlifting is a sexual practice or fetish that involves the act of lifting or raising a skirt, typically to reveal the wearer's underwear, legs, or genitals. This act can be performed by the wearer themselves or by another person, usually with the intent of sexual arousal or gratification. Skirtlifting can be consensual between partners or may occur in public settings without consent, which is illegal in many jurisdictions.
Sounding
Sounding is a sexual practice that involves the insertion of specially designed objects, called sounds, into the urethra (the tube that carries urine out of the body). This activity is typically performed for sexual pleasure and stimulation. Sounds are usually smooth, long, and thin instruments made of surgical steel, silicone, or other body-safe materials.
Spooning
Spooning is a form of physical intimacy where two people lie close together, side by side, with one person's back against the other's chest. The position resembles the way spoons nest together, hence the name. Typically, the person in front is called the "little spoon," while the person behind is the "big spoon." Spooning can be both a non-sexual act of affection and comfort, or a prelude to or position for sexual activity.
Streaking
Streaking is the act of running naked in a public place, typically as a prank, statement, or form of thrill-seeking. It involves an individual or group quickly dashing through a populated area while completely nude, often to shock, amuse, or provoke a reaction from onlookers. Streaking gained popularity as a social phenomenon in the 1970s, particularly on college campuses and at sporting events.
Subspace (BDSM)
Subspace is a psychological state or altered level of consciousness that some submissives experience during intense BDSM scenes. It's characterized by a trance-like condition where the submissive may feel floating, detached from reality, or experience a natural high. This state is often described as euphoric and can be accompanied by decreased pain sensitivity and increased feelings of connection with their dominant partner.
Swingers
Swingers are individuals who engage in sexual activities with other people besides their primary romantic partners, typically in a recreational or social context. Swinging, also known as partner-swapping or wife-swapping, involves consensual exchange of partners within a couple or among a group of people for sexual purposes.