Internet and Modern Slang
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Ahegao
Ahegao refers to an exaggerated facial expression commonly depicted in Japanese anime, manga, and adult content, characterized by rolled-back eyes, protruding tongue, and a seemingly pleasured expression meant to portray intense sexual ecstasy. This expression has become a popular internet meme and crossed over into mainstream culture, particularly in cosplay and social media communities, though it originated in adult-oriented Japanese media.
App-Controlled Vibrator
An app-controlled vibrator is a sex toy that can be operated remotely through a smartphone application, allowing users to adjust settings like vibration patterns, intensity, and speed via Bluetooth or internet connectivity. These modern pleasure devices enable long-distance intimate play between partners and often include features like music synchronization, programmable patterns, and secure connection protocols.
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Bator
A bator is someone (typically male) who enjoys masturbation as a primary sexual activity, either alone or with others, and may consider it their preferred form of sexual expression. The term is often used in online communities and among men who celebrate masturbation as a legitimate sexual practice rather than just a substitute for partnered sex.
Bimbofication
Bimbofication refers to the fetish or fantasy of transforming (or being transformed) into a stereotypically hyperfeminine, sexually attractive person who embodies exaggerated feminine traits, often portrayed as ditzy or unintelligent. This kink commonly involves elements of body modification, changes in behavior and intelligence, and embracing hyper-feminine stereotypes, either through roleplay or as a broader lifestyle choice.
Boning
Boning is a slang term for having sexual intercourse, particularly penetrative sex between partners. The term likely originated from the crude reference to an erect penis as a "bone," despite humans not actually having a penis bone like some other mammals do.
Boypussy
Boypussy (or "bussy") is a slang term primarily used in LGBTQ+ communities to refer to a male or masculine-presenting person's anus when discussed in a sexual context. The term combines "boy" and "pussy" to create a playful or sexualized way of referring to this part of the anatomy, particularly within gay and queer sexual culture.
Breadcrumbing
Breadcrumbing is a dating behavior where someone sends sporadic, noncommittal messages or shows minimal interest to keep someone interested without any intention of pursuing a genuine relationship. Like leaving a trail of breadcrumbs, the person provides just enough attention to maintain hope and connection, but never enough to develop something meaningful.
Bumping Uglies
"Bumping uglies" is a playful, colloquial euphemism for having sexual intercourse, derived from the humorous notion that genitals are "ugly" and "bump" together during sex. The phrase emerged in popular culture as a less formal, often humorous way to refer to sexual activity without using explicit terminology.
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Catfishing
Catfishing refers to the deceptive practice of creating a fake online identity or profile to lure someone into an emotional or romantic relationship, often by using stolen photos and fabricated personal information. This form of online deception can occur on dating apps, social media platforms, or any digital space where people connect romantically, with the catfisher typically having ulterior motives ranging from financial gain to emotional manipulation.
Cockblock
Cockblocking refers to the act of intentionally or unintentionally preventing someone from engaging in sexual activity or pursuing a romantic connection with another person, typically through interference or interruption. The term can apply to any gender, despite its masculine-specific language, and can involve actions ranging from deliberately sabotaging someone's flirting attempts to unknowingly creating situations that prevent intimate moments from developing.
Cockwarming
Cockwarming, also known as penis warming or soaking, is a sexual practice where a penis remains inserted inside a partner's vagina or anus without thrusting or movement, often for extended periods. The focus is on the intimate connection and warmth rather than active sexual stimulation or reaching orgasm.
Creampie
A creampie refers to the act of ejaculating inside a partner's vagina, anus, or mouth during sexual intercourse, particularly when the ejaculate is visible afterward. While commonly associated with pornographic content, the term has become more mainstream in sexual health discussions, especially regarding contraception and safe sex practices.
Cuck shed
A cuck shed is a derogatory internet slang term referring to a small outdoor structure or space where a submissive male partner is made to stay while their partner engages in sexual activities with others, playing into cuckolding fetish dynamics and humiliation fantasies.
Cuck
A cuck, short for cuckold, is a man whose partner is sexually unfaithful, often with his knowledge or consent. In modern usage, particularly online, it's sometimes used as an insult to imply weakness or submissiveness in a man.
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Dom Daddy
A Dom Daddy is a dominant male partner in a BDSM or power exchange relationship, often older or more experienced, who takes on a nurturing or paternal role while maintaining authority over a submissive partner. This dynamic combines elements of dominance and submission with aspects of caregiving and guidance.
Donkey Punch
A donkey punch is a dangerous and potentially lethal sexual act popularized in pornography and urban mythology where one partner strikes the back of their partner's head or neck during sexual activity, particularly during climax. This practice is extremely dangerous and can cause serious injury or death - it should never be attempted in real life as it can lead to brain damage, spinal cord injury, or fatal complications.
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Fuckbuddy
A fuckbuddy (also known as a friend with benefits) is a person with whom someone maintains a casual sexual relationship without romantic commitment or emotional attachment, typically based on mutual physical attraction and convenience rather than deeper emotional connection or dating expectations.
Fursona
A fursona is a personalized anthropomorphic animal character that represents someone's identity or alter-ego within the furry fandom community, often incorporating the person's personality traits, interests, and self-expression into the character's design and backstory. While not inherently sexual, fursonas can be an important part of how some people explore and express their identity, including aspects of their sexuality and relationships.
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Rainbow Kiss
A rainbow kiss is a sexual act where partners kiss after performing simultaneous oral sex on each other during menstruation, mixing menstrual blood and semen in their mouths. While considered a fringe practice that gained notoriety on social media, it carries significant health risks due to the exchange of bodily fluids.
Revenge Porn
Revenge porn refers to the act of sharing or distributing sexually explicit images or videos of someone without their consent, typically after the end of a relationship. This non-consensual sharing is often done with the intent to humiliate, blackmail, or cause distress to the victim. Despite its name, revenge is not always the motive; it can also be used for extortion, harassment, or other malicious purposes.
Rusty Trombone
A rusty trombone is a sexual act that combines analingus (oral stimulation of the anus) performed on a person with penis while simultaneously reaching around to manually stimulate their penis from behind, with the overall position resembling someone playing a trombone. This slang term gained popularity in internet culture and adult entertainment, though it's more commonly referenced as a joke than practiced in real sexual encounters.
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Scissoring
Scissoring is a sexual practice typically associated with lesbian or female same-sex encounters, where two partners interlock their legs and rub their genitals together for mutual stimulation. This activity can involve various positions and movements, with the goal of achieving sexual pleasure through genital-to-genital contact.
Sexting
Sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit messages, photos, or videos via digital devices, typically smartphones. It's a form of sexual expression and intimate communication that has become increasingly common with the widespread use of mobile technology and dating apps.
Sliding into DMs
"Sliding into DMs" is a modern slang term that refers to the act of initiating a private conversation with someone on social media, typically with romantic or sexual intentions. "DM" stands for "direct message," which is a private messaging feature on many social media platforms. The term "sliding" implies a smooth, casual approach to starting the conversation.
Spitroasting
Spitroasting refers to a sexual act involving three people, where one person (in the middle) performs oral sex on one partner while simultaneously being penetrated from behind by another partner. This term is derived from the visual similarity to the way meat is roasted on a spit.
Squirting
Squirting refers to the expulsion of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. While often confused with female ejaculation, squirting typically involves a larger volume of clear, diluted urine, whereas female ejaculation produces a smaller amount of milky fluid from the Skene's glands.
Starfishing
Starfishing refers to when someone lies completely still during sexual activity, with their arms and legs spread out like a starfish, showing minimal engagement or enthusiasm. This passive behavior can indicate discomfort, lack of interest, or feeling disconnected from the sexual experience.
Swipe Right/Left
"Swipe right/left" refers to a gesture used in many mobile dating applications to indicate interest or disinterest in potential matches. Swiping right on a person's profile typically expresses attraction or a desire to connect, while swiping left indicates a lack of interest. This action has become a ubiquitous part of modern dating culture and is often used as shorthand for making quick judgments about potential romantic or sexual partners.
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Thirst Trap
A thirst trap is a type of social media post designed to attract attention and elicit a response by appealing to viewers' sexual or romantic desires. It typically involves sharing provocative or sexually suggestive photos or videos of oneself, often with the intent of boosting one's ego, gaining followers, or inciting flirtatious interactions.
Throatpie
A throatpie refers to the act of ejaculating directly into someone's throat during oral sex, typically while the penis is deep in the mouth or throat. This slang term combines "throat" with "creampie" and has become increasingly common in pornographic content and online sexual discourse.