Internet and Modern Slang

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App-Controlled Vibrator

An app-controlled vibrator is a sex toy that can be operated remotely through a smartphone application, allowing users to adjust settings like vibration patterns, intensity, and speed via Bluetooth or internet connectivity. These modern pleasure devices enable long-distance intimate play between partners and often include features like music synchronization, programmable patterns, and secure connection protocols.

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Catfishing

Catfishing refers to the practice of creating a fake online persona to deceive or manipulate someone into a romantic or sexual relationship. This typically involves using someone else's photos, fabricating personal information, and engaging in online interactions under this false identity. Catfishing can occur on social media platforms, dating apps, or any online communication channels.

Cuck

A cuck, short for cuckold, is a man whose partner is sexually unfaithful, often with his knowledge or consent. In modern usage, particularly online, it's sometimes used as an insult to imply weakness or submissiveness in a man.

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Dom Daddy

A Dom Daddy is a dominant male partner in a BDSM or power exchange relationship, often older or more experienced, who takes on a nurturing or paternal role while maintaining authority over a submissive partner. This dynamic combines elements of dominance and submission with aspects of caregiving and guidance.

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Eggplant Emoji

The eggplant emoji (🍆) is a widely recognized symbol in digital communication that is often used as a euphemism for a penis. Despite its original intention to represent the vegetable, this emoji has taken on a sexual connotation in many online and texting contexts, particularly in flirtatious or sexually suggestive conversations.

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Netflix and Chill

"Netflix and chill" is a modern slang term and euphemism for casual sexual activity. Originally, the phrase literally meant watching Netflix and relaxing, but it has evolved to imply an invitation for sexual encounters, often under the pretense of watching movies or TV shows together. This term gained popularity in the mid-2010s, particularly among young adults and in online dating culture.

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Queef

A queef is the release of trapped air from the vagina, often during or after sexual activity, exercise, or certain movements. While it may produce a sound similar to flatulence, it is odorless and completely normal.

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Revenge Porn

Revenge porn refers to the act of sharing or distributing sexually explicit images or videos of someone without their consent, typically after the end of a relationship. This non-consensual sharing is often done with the intent to humiliate, blackmail, or cause distress to the victim. Despite its name, revenge is not always the motive; it can also be used for extortion, harassment, or other malicious purposes.

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Scissoring

Scissoring is a sexual practice typically associated with lesbian or female same-sex encounters, where two partners interlock their legs and rub their genitals together for mutual stimulation. This activity can involve various positions and movements, with the goal of achieving sexual pleasure through genital-to-genital contact.

Sexting

Sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit messages, photos, or videos via digital devices, typically smartphones. It's a form of sexual expression and intimate communication that has become increasingly common with the widespread use of mobile technology and dating apps.

Sliding into DMs

"Sliding into DMs" is a modern slang term that refers to the act of initiating a private conversation with someone on social media, typically with romantic or sexual intentions. "DM" stands for "direct message," which is a private messaging feature on many social media platforms. The term "sliding" implies a smooth, casual approach to starting the conversation.

Spitroasting

Spitroasting refers to a sexual act involving three people, where one person (in the middle) performs oral sex on one partner while simultaneously being penetrated from behind by another partner. This term is derived from the visual similarity to the way meat is roasted on a spit.

Squirting

Squirting refers to the expulsion of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. While often confused with female ejaculation, squirting typically involves a larger volume of clear, diluted urine, whereas female ejaculation produces a smaller amount of milky fluid from the Skene's glands.

Swipe Right/Left

"Swipe right/left" refers to a gesture used in many mobile dating applications to indicate interest or disinterest in potential matches. Swiping right on a person's profile typically expresses attraction or a desire to connect, while swiping left indicates a lack of interest. This action has become a ubiquitous part of modern dating culture and is often used as shorthand for making quick judgments about potential romantic or sexual partners.

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Thirst Trap

A thirst trap is a type of social media post designed to attract attention and elicit a response by appealing to viewers' sexual or romantic desires. It typically involves sharing provocative or sexually suggestive photos or videos of oneself, often with the intent of boosting one's ego, gaining followers, or inciting flirtatious interactions.

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Webcam Model

A webcam model, also known as a cam model or camgirl/camboy, is an individual who performs live, sexually explicit shows or erotic content via webcam for paying viewers. These performers typically broadcast from their homes or studios, using video streaming platforms designed for adult entertainment. Webcam models may engage in various activities, from conversation and striptease to masturbation and sexual acts, based on viewer requests and tips.